Visit Rebekah's Page to get updates, read messages and send messages to Rebekah and her family through comments. This is a public "diary" of a family whose little girl started a battle with inoperable cancer in April 2005. In December 2007 our house burned down. And in September 2009 Mommy was diagnosed with a terminal disease (a genetic form of ALS) that took her to Heaven in July, 2011, leaving Daddy and two young girls to make it on their own. Over several years of ups and downs, you will get into our hearts, minds and souls as we share joys and sorrows. It can sometimes be very difficult to read. We hope it is also uplifting. Please find joy in what you read here.
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Friday, August 26, 2005



Friday Final Update (Now known as THE MOVEMENT)

More Than Final Update 10:30pm: After putting up the last update I went back to the room. Allie (see many previous comments) had come to sit with Rebekah and Frances this evening which was a great blessing - especially since she will come back Sunday too!!! Uncle Mark and Aunt Tiffany where also there and brought mommy ice cream which makes them higher in her eyes than daddy - and it was chocolate no less.

After Rebekah had gone to bed peacefully, or so we thought, Allie took off and Mark and TT where just about out the door and Rebekah moved. No, I mean she REALLY MOVED! Everything that had been building up inside her for more than a week and all of the food we have been pumping into the G-Tube for the last three days came out at once and quite explosively. We had always said that the rooms needed a bit more color and apparently Rebekah thought so too. The bed, the walls, the floor, mommy, mark, the nurse Lyndsee were covered. TT and daddy where standing back and daddy literally ran for the door. Out came enough that 5 diapers could not have dreamed of holding it. HOUSEKEEPING TO ROOM 3524 STAT!

I am sorry the picture painted may be gross but it was heaven to us as it means her systems are starting to work again. After we had put the last dose of fiber and colace in her (minutes before) the nurse said "if she is taking all this in it has to come out..." PROPHESY! Rebekah did not like all of the scrubbing up that had to be done but we are so excited about it. We are also very grateful that TT and Mark where there to help as it took all of us plus an extra nurse or two plus housekeeping to get things under control.

Thanks for delighting in the gross with us. It is the weirdest things that give great joy right now.

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7:24pm It is after dinner and I just took a quick trip out to the trailer to try and get an update up. Mommy now has a laptop in the room and has downloaded all of your comments for her to be able to read for some inspiration.

Rebekah continues to not be doing well. She is in the pain med patch and some additional morphine down her G-Tube. Just before dinner she went into a complete hysterical fit and could not be consoled. It might have been another reaction to some Benadryl that had just been given her or it might have been that she was running out/low on pain meds. It's very hard to say for certain.

Her chest xray did not reveal anything in the lungs or lower airway which is good. The trip downstairs seemed to be very soothing to her. She enjoyed being out of the room and moving as much as possible. I say "enjoyed" which is really weird if you saw her as you could only tell she was enjoying it because there was not so much pain in her eyes. In fact we were treated to a few moments of the sparkle that so many of her pictures show.

Her airway and oxygenation issues are still not solved. We are holding off, for now, on a tracheotomy but we are not improving at all. Hopefully another day or two of rest will do a lot.

There are two other Ewing's patients in the hospital right now and each of them is at a different stage. Gage is just a bit behind Rebekah and Joshua is a bit ahead. We don't know a lot about Gage or his family except that we ask that you pray for them in some unsaid needs. Joshua is also in need of some extra prayer as his blog demonstrates. Joshua's blog also addressed a bit about Rebekah today. I know that so many of you are devoting so much to Rebekah but I ask that you at least take a quick look at Joshua's page and add a line to your prayers for each of them tonight - we are.

Sorry, no more pictures today. She hasn't changed from yesterday (which is a GOOD thing!)

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At Friday, August 26, 2005 8:14:00 PM, Anonymous Anonymous Left a thought...

Thank you so much for the update and for passing on Joshua's link. Though in Seattle, at the stroke of eight, I was on my knee, joining the vigil and praying for Rebekah and now Joshua and Gage! God bless you and I pray you get the chance to rest yourselves.

 
At Friday, August 26, 2005 8:21:00 PM, Anonymous Anonymous Left a thought...

We're praying harder than ever. Thank you for the update. The new site is fittingly beautiful.

God bless you all.

Prayers from Cleveland.

 
At Friday, August 26, 2005 8:35:00 PM, Anonymous Anonymous Left a thought...

I'm on CST but I joined in the 8:00 prayer.

Lord, You knew Rebekah before she even was, You delighted in her creation, every part of her was crafted by Your hands. There is nothing about this precious child that was an act of genetics or chance. You choose her parents knowing that they alone should be her mommy and daddy. It is in their care that you gave this child, Your child, Your creation. You knew her days, her laughter, her smile, her mischief, her hurts, her struggles, her pain. You knew that mommy and daddy would share all of these with her. Lord there is nothing in this world that happens without your hand, nothing in this world that is out of Your control, Your grasp, Your grace. You don't always provide us with the why's the what's or even the when's but you have given us the who. Lord you know the pain of this mommy and daddy because you have watched Your child in pain. Jesus you know the hurts of this little girl because you experienced pain greater than we can know. And yet You offer us a salvation that will take away all pain, that promises us Your presence, that lets us hope in our future eternity with You. Lord, our prayers do not fall on deaf ears. The Creator and Lord bends near to hear the whispered prayer, to hear the cry of a mother, to hear the moaning of our hearts when words fail to come. Lord You promise that You listen, You hear, and You know. So Lord I come before you tonight and I ask that You continue to work miracles. It was a miracle that this child was created, a miracle that You have shown Yourself to her, a miracle that her mommy and daddy know you as thier Savior. We ask for healing, we ask for relief, we ask for Your will, knowing it is perfect and good. Lord, specifically give this little girl a full night of restful sleep, let her ears be filled with the heavenly hosts praising your Name. Lord, provide much needed rest to Mommy and Daddy. Give them wisdom as they face decisions. May Your peace and comfort surround them. Lord, I also lift up to you Joshua and Gage. No child is beyond Your site. No hurting heart is out of Your reach. We love you Father, we rest in Your grace.

Sorry this is so long. I guess I just wanted you to know that God has laid on so many hearts your family and you are surrounded in prayer.

 
At Friday, August 26, 2005 8:49:00 PM, Blogger Queen on the run Left a thought...

Still here and still praying and now will add joshua and gage.

 
At Friday, August 26, 2005 8:54:00 PM, Blogger JodiTucker Left a thought...

Dear ones,
Katie said it above so eloquently. I echo her thoughts with tears, prayer, heartache, and love to you.
I couldn't even stand it when the Tucker kids were little when they had the flu and vomitted or were really weak. Only God can sustain you through all of this. We are praying often for Rebekah and now Gage and Joshua.....Jodi in OH

 
At Friday, August 26, 2005 9:21:00 PM, Blogger Lucy Stern Left a thought...

Darlene, I know this is so hard for you. I don't know how you handle all of this so good. If you didn't have your Heavenly Father to hold you in his arms, then you would probably be a basket case. Hold on and know that so many people are praying for Rebekah. My heart swells with tears when I see the pictures of your sweet girl. Please hang in there and know that we are praying for your family.

 
At Friday, August 26, 2005 9:51:00 PM, Blogger Deb Left a thought...

We stand in agreement with Katie's awesome prayer to the Father on your behalf!

...and have added Josh and Gage to our prayers as well.

Have a restful night,
In His Love,
Deb, Randy and Olivia

 
At Saturday, August 27, 2005 12:25:00 AM, Blogger Kim Left a thought...

Ditto Katie :) (that's my daughter's name). Praying -- and happy about the 5 diaper sized poop. Bring more miracles, Lord.

 
At Saturday, August 27, 2005 1:15:00 AM, Blogger steve Left a thought...

Thanks to those that joined in at 8PM. We prayed for Rebekah and we played worship songs. The Holy spirit really flowed...

It was a beautiful thing to start worship and see the clock at EXACTLY 8 PM when it started (for those that know my Pastor you can only imagine that it WOULD take an act of God to have him be on time!!)

I just knew that there were people praying in many different states. What an amazing thing. Just prayed that God would lift Rebekah and also give you guys resta nd comfort. Asjked God to remove her from danger and strengthen her so that she can have a lifetime of service for our Father.

"COURAGE is fear that has said it's Prayers!"

lots and lots of courage Scott! Diapers full!! ;-)

Love you guys

 
At Saturday, August 27, 2005 3:17:00 AM, Anonymous Anonymous Left a thought...

Praying from Seattle...

Couldn't sleep tonight...and decided to see if there was any progress...LO AND BEHOLD: A POOPY DIAPER!!! This is wonderful news that her system is kicking back into gear!!! Thank you so much for the update. Now, I go to bed with this good news on my mind and in my heart! God Bless!

 
At Saturday, August 27, 2005 4:28:00 AM, Blogger Corry Left a thought...

We keep praying for all of you!

God's Grace.

 
At Saturday, August 27, 2005 4:52:00 AM, Blogger Peggy Left a thought...

Rebekah is in my thoughts and prayers. You are very blessed to have her in your lives as I am to have found her blog.

 
At Saturday, August 27, 2005 6:08:00 AM, Anonymous Anonymous Left a thought...

Wanted to check on your sweet angel.

God is good to provide exactly what is needed and what He seeks to accomplish. Congratulations on the poop (how funny a comment is that).

 
At Saturday, August 27, 2005 6:36:00 AM, Blogger Deb Left a thought...

Your post at 10:30pm (1:30am our time) was exciting to read at 9 this morning when we checked the posts!

God is so good! I hope that the relief that Rebekah felt was enough to allow her to have a good night's rest!

...rejoicing...with continued prayer!
Deb, Randy and Olivia

 
At Saturday, August 27, 2005 6:50:00 AM, Anonymous Anonymous Left a thought...

PRAISE GOD! Praise God, Praise God from whom ALL blessings flow. I am excited with you. May God continue building you up with hope and pouring out His oil of joy and gladness upon each one of you.

 
At Saturday, August 27, 2005 7:31:00 AM, Blogger Heather/SHTEZQ Left a thought...

I am glad to hear things moved. I always thought it was humorous what little things that pleased you when they are in this situtation. I used to sit and cry tears of joy when something as small as a blink of an eye would happen sometime. these little things are the important ones keep being strong Rebekah you sweet little angel.

 
At Saturday, August 27, 2005 8:20:00 AM, Blogger jomo Left a thought...

Thanks for all the updates. It's like we are able to be in her room with her.
Our prayers continue to bombard Heaven, and we expect miracles.
May God give you rest and comfort as the days pass.

 
At Saturday, August 27, 2005 8:55:00 AM, Blogger Jeff H Left a thought...

Thanks for the update. Good News comes in many forms, even messy ones sometimes!!!

Steve, thanks for letting us know about the 8 PM prayer. I joined in, too.

 
At Saturday, August 27, 2005 9:06:00 AM, Anonymous Anonymous Left a thought...

It is definitely the little things!! though this doesn't sounds so "Little".. I am not sure if I should be happy I left "just in the nick of time", and missed the new room decorations, or sorry that I wasn't there to help.. I'm going with the latter.. Wish my timing had been better, and I had been there to help..
Thank you Lord for working in so many ways in which we do not see, and others we do. Please keep your healing hands on this beautiful child, and her family. Amen
Love to all of you.. See you Sunday! Allie

 
At Saturday, August 27, 2005 12:22:00 PM, Blogger Pam Left a thought...

OK, hmm...I did suggest you find something to laugh about, be joyful about...I guess you found it all right and it was ALL AROUND YOU!!!

 

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